Monday, February 11, 2008

Chaseneh in Vishnitz

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Whoever is in Bnei Brak today (Monday) and wants to participate in a great wedding, should definitely go to Kiryat Vishnitz. Chassidut Vishnitz Bnei Brak is celebrating a great Chaseneh.

A great - grandson of the previous Rebbe, Rabbi Yehoshua Hager, is getting married. If you are not in the area but still in Israel, don't miss the opportunity going to the Sheva Berachot (until next Monday).

So far, I haven't had the chance to get to know Vishnitz much better. However, for the past few weeks, I have been talking to a Vishnitzer Chassid and he explained me a lot about the group.
In Jerusalem they mostly live in a certain part of Sanhedria, and I asked the Chassid if they don't have a chassidic Tish here from time to time. The Tish is mostly in Bnei Brak but I was told about the "Botte". The Botte is a Vishnitzer custom, a gathering of Chassidim in order to sing and dance.

It is high time for me going more to Beit Shemesh and Bnei Brak.
Beit Shemesh is not a problem, as I just got very friendly with a chassidic family who moved there. But in Bnei Brak I don't know people yet. However, once I go there on a regular basis, I will get to know some. I really don't want to miss out Sadigora, Zhvil, Skver, the Satmarer of Rebbe Aharon Teitelbaum and the Shomrei Emunim.

For Vishnitz fans:
The Monsey - Rebbe, Rabbi Mordechai Hager, is coming to Israel after Pessach. He is going to hold and Tish and the Vishnitzer Chassid I know will get me in.

Kiryat Vishnitz in Bnei Brak





Vishnitz Synagogue in Bnei Brak





Satmar Synagogue in Bnei Brak

Sunday, February 10, 2008

My "unknown" Future

B"H

Some time ago, "A Simple Jew" asked me in an e - mail if I grew up chassidic and what do I personally gain from going to all the chassidic Tishes I write about.

I grew up non - religious and I do not remember that we even had a Tanach in the house. Somehow I believed that there is a G - d but never bothered to find out more. My life was too busy; high school, university, work. Just as everybody else's life. I never checked out Far East religions or anything, as I was not interested in religion.

When I was in my late twenties, I made the following agreement with myself: I know that there is ONE G - d but at the moment, I do not have the time to learn anything about it. First, I will work and have a normal life but later when I have time I will surely find out more. I think this is exactly what many people do. Well, not now but maybe later.

My perspective changed when I moved to Jerusalem. I was here as a tourist and had been in a Kibbutz Ulpan studying Hebrew. I was sick of Kibbutzim and, as I am a person who likes city life, I moved to Jerusalem. I had lived in Tel Aviv first but hated it.
So, I came to Jerusalem and did not really know where to go. I finally ended up in an Arab hostel in the Arab Quarter of the Old City. The place was dirty and full of non - Jewish tourists. There was even a young American couple where the guy was Jewish but the girl was not. I cannot describe it, but it bothered me a lot. Especially because I had been to the Western Wall (Kotel) on the same day. Not, that I had any great religious feelings at the Kotel but I did remember some kind of a Heritage. When I came back to the hostel and saw the mixed couple sitting there, I just blew up on them. I asked the Jewish guy if he is not ashamed walking around in Jerusalem with a Shickse. The guy was so surprised and did not say much but the "Shickse" was freaking out. According to my later experience, it is mostly rather the non - Jewish part starting to yell at other Jews and call them a something than the Jewish part in the "relationship". I wonder why.:-)

The tourists in the hostel went on my nerves and I considered staying in Jerusalem and making Aliyah at a certain point. In the mornings I left and only came back in the evenings. During the day I was just walking through the city and getting to know it. Then someone told me that there are Shabbat placements for dinner at the Kotel. Every Friday night there is a guy giving the placements to Jewish tourists. I went and I cannot even remember if I wore a skirt or pants. I just went, found the guy who is a Jew from Chicago called Jeff Seidel. He send me to a Chabad rabbi. So, there I was. I was sitting in the middle of about 30 Jews and the rabbi and we were having Kiddush and dinner. Most of the people were just like me and not religious. Someone told me about a free hostel in the Old City called the Heritage House. Already on the next morning, I checked in. And then my religious life started.

The Heritage House also offers free evening classes and I became a complete addict going there. Additionally, they sent us to the Discovery - Program of the Yeshiva Aish HaTorah. I was amazed and soon the Heritage House classes were not enough any more. I went to the National Jewish Library and just studied as much as I could.
Then I went to Yeshiva. First with the national religious and later with the litvish.

However, one thing happened I had never thought of. I really wanted to have a haredi life - style but, for a reason I still so not understand, I could not do it then. I had a nervous breakdown and went back to Germany where I came from.
I think that the reason might have been that I did everything too fast instead of giving it time. Soon I felt squeezed into the haredi world and I missed my freedom. I felt like I could not fulfill all expectations. Especially not my own expectations. It was as if the body wanted but not the soul. Something kept me back.

I became just the opposite and started to hate all the religious. Seeing haredim on a bus and studying Talmud was a torture for me. They were sitting and studying and I simply could not do it and did not even know the reason.

When I look back it is as if I did not hate the religious but just myself for being unable of having a haredi life style.

I decided to take a break and lived in Germany for more than two years until I finally made Aliyah. There I started missing the religious life but also got adjusted to the European life again. Keeping kosher, finding Jewish friends and having a real Jewish life is almost impossible. Maybe it is different if one lives in Berlin, Frankfurt or Munich but still, this is not like Israel, New York or London. Germany cannot compete with any other place, and there everything felt like dead. German Jews are strange as well.

I was glad when I made Aliyah but did not really intend to go back to the religious. This time I wanted to be more careful and not just jump into something.

I went to Shiurim and to the synagogues but nothing further. Before I left and despite all my studies with the litvish, I was always attracted to chassidim. I got to know their life much better when I had a quite nice friendship with a Satmar family in Mea Shearim. Of course, Chabad tried to get me into their group and claimed that Satmar has nothing to offer. But the thing is that I love Chassidut but could never make up my mind which group to join. I am not a group person anyway and prefer to go here and there. There are things I like about Gur or about Breslov, about Satmar or Toldot Aharon, but I cannot see myself becoming a member and following only one Rebbe.

More than a year ago, I started my two religious blogs; one in German and one in English. As I had never stopped studying Judaism, I wanted to share some knowledge and thoughts. Especially in German where Jews hardly know anything and the reform movement rules everywhere. A little later, I decided to explain chassidic groups and I do not have a particular reason for this goal. After writing about Chabad, Breslov and Gur, I chose Vishnitz. Well, I do not know any Vishnitzer which started to bother me. Would it not be better going out and talking to chassidim in order to write about them ? One should not only quote from a book but actually speak to people. This is why I started going to the different Tishes.

The unexpected thing is that I got attached again. I do think a lot about becoming chassidic and I have been keeping certain customs for quite a while. The more I go, the more I think about it. However, I am still too afraid of jumping into something and getting another nervous breakdown. I have to admit that it is a crazy feeling: On Friday night I am sitting with the chassidim and on Mozzaei Shabbat I am back to my "normal" life. Living in two worlds so to speak.

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Sometimes it happens in life that you know the answer and just don't accept it. For whatever reason.

Yesterday I went having lunch with chassidic family in the middle of Mea Shearim. As I mentioned before, it happens that I know the family for many years but they asked me not to publish details about them, and I respect their request.

However, since I have been starting seeing them again after a long break, I do feel much more connected to my old haredi life. The good thing is that I am going on my own and, so far, met great new people in the host's living room. I really have been enjoying the conversations very much and with some people I am even about to make friends.

It is only of advantage going alone to Tishes and Shabbatot, as people start talking to you much easier. My Yiddish seems to improve and yesterday, I had some small successful conversations.

Our host had some very interesting frum girls visitors. She used to invite all kinds of people which caused her plenty of problems with the neighbours. Now she only wants guests who know the haredi world and are somehow part of it. She is a kind of sick of stupid questions and remarks from people who have never led a haredi life style. That's her policy and I totally agree with it.

While we were sitting at the table yesterday, our host, me and the Israeli frum girls had a great conversation. And by the way, we enjoyed not having to justify ourselves in front of anyone not knowing haredi society.

The girls study in a Jerusalem program which is based on the teachings of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov. But not only Breslov.
Our host loves to ask private questions and especially one of the girls emphasized that she definitely wants to marry a Breslover Chassid. But not one from the "Nach Nach".

Then our host and another girl started discussing an important personal subject:

Someone becoming religious should never rush himself into religion. Today I study Torah, tomorrow Talmud and next week I know the whole Zohar. Today I learn how to pray and next week I will do the most difficult Tikkunim and reach the greatest Devekut ever.

It doesn't work this way. Becoming religious and especially Haredi is a process which takes many years. It is impossible to start today because you are getting attracted by a certain lifestyle. One has to study the basics and join firm programs. Not a lecture here and there. It should be a real program to get an idea.

The next step is a slow change where a rabbi should help you.

One of the girls made a great comment:
Her rabbi told her that people rushing into religion will definitely fall. The fall itself is a punishment for the rush. After the fall, you have to get up and do everything all over again. But this time, step by step.

I am sure this is exactly what happened to me some years ago, and I am really pleased meeting people having the same problems. It is important meeting such people, as none who hasn't even lived a haredi lifestyle can understand any of the problems one faces.

Yesterday's talks showed me that I am on the right track. I do take it slowly. Being with Haredim helps me a lot coming back to my old life and I will continue joining as many haredi events as I can.

Friday, February 8, 2008

Plans

B"H

This week was so full of different events that I only today found some time making plans for Shabbat.

Tonight I am definitely going to Rabbi Mordechai Machlis and maybe afterwards to a chassidic Tish. For sure, I am going to check of if the Toldot Aharon are back. Unfortunately, the Rebbe of Toldot Avraham Yitzchak, Rebbe Shmuel Yaakov Kahn, doesn't feel so well, as one of the group members told me. So, I don't know what is going on there; a Tish yes or rather not.

However, on Shabbat morning I am going to one of the Mea Shearim synagogues and afterwards I am invited at a local chassidic family for lunch. I know them for many years and although they live in the middle of Mea Shearim, it is not such a great excitement for me. Well, it is special because they are very nice and warm but the fact of being in Mea Shearim is not anything extraordinary.

A great Shabbat to all of you !!!
שבת שלום - גיד שבס

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Against Christian Missionaries

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At the beginning of this week, I participated in a Shiur about Christian missionaries in Israel. The Shiur took place at the Jerusalem Israel Center (Orthodox Union) and wasn't actually too much of a Shiur but more an introduction to the anti - missionary work of "Jews for Judaism". They just opened a branch in Jerusalem but as far as I understood, they are still looking for an office.

Israel already has a more or less sufficient anti - missionary organization called "Yad Le'Achim". They have plenty of volunteers and are run by Litvaks (Head Rabbi Dov Lipshitz) in Bnei Brak. Yad Le' Achim has many contacts all over the country and they receive many daily phone calls from Israelis complaining about Christian missionary activities.

"Jews for Judaism" however announced at their lecture that they first want to stress on giving anti - missionary seminars. Every Jew should know his own religion and appreciate it. There is nothing better than finding the spirituality within Judaism and not, instead, running to another religion. Secular Jews have to learn that Judaism doesn’t only consist of Mea Shearim and weird ancient Halachot but that it stands for a living Thora and endless spirituality.

Nevertheless, I have to say that the "Jews for Judaism" introduction run by Peninah Taylor and Rabbi Bentzion Kravitz (from LA) was too American. Well, what can you expect when you go to the American Israel Center ?

However, I seemed to be more a fundraising show. Okay, Peninah Taylor started off with telling her personal story how she as a born Jews met a classmate at high school and, thus was missionized to Christianity. She talked about how she got married to a non - Jew, went to church, joined the Adventists, left them and was finally sent to a haredi neighbourhood in Baltimore in order to missionize the Jews. Eventually she and her husband told the local rabbi and he introduced them to "Jews for Judaism". Peninah came back to orthodox Judaism, her husband converted to Judaism and both made Aliyah to Israel some time ago. Now she will be the new head of the Jerusalem branch of Jews for Judaism.

There were some things bothering me during the lecture.
As I said, it was too American and Rabbi Kravitz really liked to hear himself talking. It is always strange to Israelis like me when someone from abroad comes and talks about Israel. Yad Le'Achim is much better, as their members and heads are mostly Israelis. This let me come to the next point bothering me. The event totally left out the current Israeli missionary problem. Okay, Jews for Judaism mentioned that there are countless American missionaries on the way to Israel, but the information missing were facts and figures. What is really going on at the moment ? Where are the missionaries located and what exactly do they do ? Where ? Places ? Names ? Something like this.

It showed me that it will take "Jews for Judaism" some time to get started, and what they should consider as their priority is recruiting Israelis speaking Hebrew.

Another point bothering me is a question, I was actually planning to address at Peninah Taylor. Eventually I didn't because I didn't want to see her faint.

My question was how ex - missionaries who are Jewish can deal with the fact that while they were missionizing, they might have caused Jews to do idol worship and convert to Christianity.

The Jewish missionary might come back to Judaism but what about the missioned ones ? Is he going to apologize to them ? Can G - d forgive such an Averah ? Is there forgiveness at all when you consider the Rambam in Hilchot Teshuva ?
I am not a rabbi and I don't have a halachic answer to this but as Peninah Taylor seems to be at the Israel Center more often, I still might ask her how she deals with the fact. In case, she really did cause Jews to do idol worship.

Tonight will be another event taking place at the Center in Keren HaYesod 22, Jerusalem.

At 8:00 pm, the lecture "Christian Zionism - Christian Evangelism" is going to take place.

Entrance fee is 25 IS, students pay 10 IS and journalists have free access.



Pictures from the "Jews for Judaism" event:

Peninah Taylor (left) and Rabbi Bentzion Kravitz (right)




The Crowd listening

New Compensation for Holocaust Survivors

B"H

Holocaust Victims Assets Restitution

The Company for Restitution of Holocaust Victims Assets, established to do justice with Holocaust victims and their heirs, would like to announce that the first list of assets in Israel, previously owned by Holocaust victims, is now open for public viewing on this website:

http://www.hashava.org.il/eng/

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Runaways

B"H

After yesterdays' suicide bomb attack in the Negev town Dimona, I was looking through Youtube in order to find a "nice" suicide attack video. For all those idiotic Palestine fans and whoever supports the Palestinians.

There are plenty of shocking suicide attack videos available. I watched a few dealing with exploding buses in Jerusalem and while I was watching all the flown - away body parts, blood and other shocking pictures, I seriously considered not to publish it in my blogs. At least, not now but maybe later.

I don't remember exactly how, but suddenly I came upon a video called NAF. NAF in Jerusalem. It said that it is about Zion Square and a guy called NAF (Naftali). Okay, I thought, the video is probably about the young guy at Zion (Crack) Square using drugs. Anyhow, I was curious as it concerns the city I live in and I started watching NAF.

Basically the video is about a rapper who used to be a former Israeli haredi Yeshiva student. Naftali (Naf) told the story how his parents threw him out of the house because he decided to become secular. The parents saw him as a danger to the smaller siblings and told Naf to leave. Since, Naf has been walking around Zion Square and doesn't really know what to do with himself.

He said that he hasn't cried for years. Crying would remind him of all the daily problems he faces. First you think that you are old enough to deal with everything. Even when you are only 15 years old. However, after a short while you realize that you are not able at all. Of course, you don't admit it and crying would just be an expression of admitting it. So, don't start crying in the first place.

Religious runaways from home is a common problem in Jerusalem. Where does a haredi teenager go when her or his parents throw him out of the house ? The municipality reacted a long time ago and has special social workers available for such cases. The social workers try talking to the parents and finding a compromise between the teenager and themselves. How should the teenager behave in order to stay at home ? How should he dress ?

A religious rebel in the family is a threat or a catastrophe in many haredi families. What do the neighbours gossip and how does it influence the Shidduchim of the siblings ? Those are serious thoughts the parents alone mostly cannot deal with. There is nothing more important in haredi society than keeping once perfect reputation. The future generations depend on that or how are they otherwise supposed to be accepted at a good Yeshiva and find the perfect Shidduch ?

Unfortunately, many times, the teenager facing personal difficulties and crises seem to be forgotten. Society problems have more priority than solving the problem of the teenager.
"Hillel" - the social organization for Chozrei Be' Sheela (the ones moving away from religion and becoming secular) is not the best solution for everyone. They give Kibbutz shelter to a religious runaway and further assistance. However, as a totally secular organization they don't realize the haredi world and thoughts which still exist inside the runaway's mind.
How to deal with one's own guilt ?
Having a place to sleep and some social assistance is not always efficient enough. There needs to be done much more. Especially keeping up the contact with the parents. The Jerusalem municipality might be a better alternative, as there, religious social workers might change the whole problem to the good.

Times are Changing

B"H

In the course of time, I got to know many Jews who seriously intended to become religious. They were looking for something in their lives and signed up for different Yeshivot. Slowly they started dressing in a religious way. Many times haredi.

It is not unusual meeting people you make friends with. However, after a while you start seeing a person less and less. People change and I was always surprised when meeting someone formerly religious who eventually gave up and went back to his old secular ways. I have heard different explanations. The most popular one seems to be that newly religious were stuck in a crisis.

Having a crisis is not always the fault of a Yeshiva. Many times, the newcomer tends to put too much pressure upon himself. Becoming religious too fast almost never works out. You cannot eat a cheeseburger today and wear a black hat tomorrow. Taking everything step by step is much more productive. You shouldn't go over your limit even though if others tell you.

G - d doesn't want you to be super human but only using your own individual potential.

Sunday, February 3, 2008

The Avraham Yitzchak Synagogue

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The Mosdot Toldot Avraham Yitzchak in the Mea Shearim Market

The Rebbe went wild

B"H

Last Erev Shabbat, I didn't hesitate too long and after the Shabbat meal at the Machlises, I went straight to the Tish of the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak.

As there was no Tish at the Toldot Aharon, everybody ran over to the Avraham Yitzchak were the Tish was completely packed with several hundred people. The Chassidim hardly had a place to stand on. However, the Ezrat Nashim was less crowded. There were even more female guests than members.

Rebbe Shmuel Yaakov Kahn started slowly but after a while, he got more and more energetic. He started singing and did so with an incredible emotion that he was swinging his arms wildly around him. He takes his task very seriously and tries to gain as much Devekut as he can. His way of singing is a great chassidic event.

A group of national religious girls was storming in and as soon as they arrived, they just jumped on the female group members in order to ask questions. As I have mentioned before, the Avraham Yitzchak are more open than the Toldot Aharon and answered all the questions very friendly and patiently. The Avraham Yitzchak women even seemed to enjoy very much talking to the other girls from the outside.
A young girl standing right in front of me asked an elderly group member how the Shidduchim are being handled.

Group member: "A couple is getting engaged and they marry after two months."

Girl: "What, so soon ? This is frightening because they don't know each other at all."

Group member: "We don't get married because of all these artificial reasons such as love and so on. We emphasize on building a family and a serious relationship with a common goal. And who says that an unmarried couple only living together knows each other better than our couples ?"

I have to admit that she has got a point with that. However, I would not agree getting married this way.

Yesterday, on my way home through the Ge'ulah neighbourhood, I met the grandchild of my Mea Shearim host from the week before. The grandchild asked me why I hadn't come again. Actually, I wasn't planning to show up every week but I will definitely call tomorrow. This means that I am going to spend this coming Shabbat in Mea Shearim with a chassidic family.

A very nice chassidic woman I met (Toldot Avraham Yitzchak) is moving out to Beit Shemesh this week and invited me over for Shabbat once they have settled. I would really like to do so but first I want to find out if this is fine with the group. I know that Toldot Aharon is much stricter concerning outsiders and inviting them. I don't know if the Avraham Yitzchak are more open inviting outsiders. We will see.

Jew for Judaism in Jerusalem

B"H

It is high time that the "Jews for Judaism"
also open a branch in Jerusalem, as plenty of vicious Christian missionaries are filling our streets. Not, that those missionaries are too successful but they are a real plague. Walking around and telling others about their absurd ideas and visions. I have never seen such an illogical religion.

Now, the Jews for Judaism open up their new Jerusalem branch and tonight (Sunday, Feb., 3, 2008), two members of the organization are giving three lectures at the Israel Center (Orthodox Union) in Jerusalem.

All three lectures are free of charge !!!!

Location:

The OU Israel Center

22 Keren HaYesod, Jerusalem

7.00 o'clock this evening



1. The Power of Persuasion

Speaker: Rabbi Bentzion Kravitz


2. How man bricks does it take ?

Speaker: Penina Taylor


3. Manipulation, Messianics and the Missionary Menace

Speaker: Rabbi Bentzion Kravitz and Penina Taylor

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Another lecture is taking place on this coming Thursday, February 7, 2008. The location is the same.

Time: 8:00pm

Charge: 25 Shekels, students 10 Shekels

Christian Zionism - Christian Evangelism:
The real truth and what to do about it

Speaker: Mr. Aryeh Yosef Gallin

Tragedy or Luck - The Split of Toldot Aharon

B"H

When a chassidic group splits, it first looks like a real tragedy. Suddenly two relatives (mostly two sons) of a former rebbe claim leadership. One son doesn't want to accept that his brother will be the next rebbe. Especially today, the rebbe position is also connected to power and unfortunately, many people think that only they are the right one to handle everything.

But I also heard other opinions. Some chassidic groups might even be gaining something positive from a split. Maybe a totally new rebbe and a new established group help certain members of the former group to find new opportunities and satisfaction ?

This article is about the famous split of the Chassidut Toldot Aharon. The split might have been a tragedy, but I am sure that many members also gained something positive from it.

Rebbe Aharon Roth was the founder of the Toldot Aharon. His father, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov, also worked as a greengrocer. Born 1894 in Ungvar, he started studying Torah and Talmud at a very early age. At the age of 22, he married Sima who was the daughter of Rabbi Yitzchak Katz of Budapest. Rebbe Aharon Roth eared his living as a religious teacher who accepted all students. Even those who were thrown out of Yeshivot. Thus, he built himself up a small group of followers.

In 1925, he moved to Jerusalem where he acquired a new group of followers. Due to medical reasons, he returned to Satmar in 1929. There the self – appointed rebbe was not welcomed by other Chassidim and was seen as a competitor. He was forced to leave Satmar for Beregszaz (Beregovo) where he established a new Yeshiva with the name "Shomrei Emunim". Eight students studied with him and the yeshiva was supported by Rabbi Chaim Elazar Shapira of Munkacs.

All those years, his students from Jerusalem were still in touch with Rebbe Aharon Roth. In 1939, he left for Jerusalem where he established a very closed society called Toldot Aharon. He was an extreme strong opponent of Zionism, emphasized ecstatic and urged his followers to live according to his Takanot (laws).

Rebbe Aharon Roth died on 6 Nissan 1947 and is buried on the Mount of Olives. Rebbe Arele, the name by his Chassidim called him, was the author of many books such as "Shomer Emunim" and "Shulchan HaTahor".

It was right after Rebbe Arele's death that his chassidic group split for the first time. His son, Rebbe Avraham Chaim Roth, claimed the new leadership but the members didn't want him as the new Rebbe. Instead, they chose Rebbe Arele's son in law, Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak Kahn, as the new Rebbe. Rabbi Avraham Chaim was not too pleased about the decision and founded his own group, the Shomrei Emunim (Guardians of Faith). Later, he moved to Bnei Brak whereas he still has a community in Jerusalem (the Shomrei Emunim neighbourhood). Whoever wants to go to a Shomrei Emunim Tish must be patient. The Rebbe comes only sometimes to Jerusalem. Their synagogue is in Mea Shearim Street and the Rebbe is very popular among his followers. The Tish is also quite popular and as soon as there is one, many Mea Shearim Chassidim participate. The synagoge is rather small but has a beautiful Aron HaKodesh.

Until today, the Shomrei Emunim members don't have too much contact with the Toldot Aharon. Furthermore, they are also not members of the Edah HaCharedit and much more open to the outside world.

Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak Kahn became the new Rebbe and led the Toldot Aharon until he passed away in December 1996. The Toldot Aharon members always see the same problem occurring: A Rebbe dies and a newcomer is planning to make changes in the group policies. Many of the Toldot Aharon members seem to be happy with their group and even with the Takanot. To them it means more than only an identification. It is their life and this is how they want to be and how they chose to be. They don't want changes.


Rebbe Avraham Yitzchak Kahn



Rebbe Avraham Yitzchak Kahn continued the extreme way of former Rebbe Arele. And this is exactly what the members demanded. The next problem occurred when he died and a new Rebbe had to be appointed. Of course, the oldest son, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kahn, thought that he is going to take over leadership. However, even before his father died, the group members already understood that Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov is less extreme and might bring about some changes. He had studied with the Vishnitzer Rebbe and wasn't too anti - Zionist in his ideas. Today, he even meets members of the Agudat Israel. Two years ago, he went to a Simcha of the Knesset member Israel Eichler who belongs to Chassidut Belz.

The Edah HaCharedit still considers Chassidut Belz as a kind of an enemy. In the early eighties, Belz had left the Edah and joined the Agudat Israel. A catastrophe in the eyes of Satmar and Toldot Aharon. Belz was accused of being a traitor joining a religious Zionist party. As many of us know, there was a serious war going on after Belz split from the Edah. Satmarer Chassidim even burnt Belzer school buses in New York. The situation today is quiet but as there are two Badatz (Beit Din Zedek) Hechsherim (kosher certificates), one from Belz and one from the Edah, war continues. No one eats from the other's Hechsher.

Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kahn claimed the new leadership after his father died but the members were afraid of changes they didn't want. The members asked Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov's younger brother, Rabbi David Kahn, to become the new Toldot Aharon Rebbe. He would stick to the old extreme ways, as he haid studied under the famous Satmarer Rebbe, Rabbi Yoel Teitelbaum. This was the way, the group members preferred.

Of course, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kahn wasn't too pleased and asked the Beit Din Zedek of the Edah HaCharedit for a clear decision. He was sure about himself winning the case, as the famous Beit Din Zedek member, Rabbi Meir Brandsdorfer, was on his side. The Edah however asked Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov to organize elections. Each group member should make a personal vote and thus decided who the new Rebbe is going to be.

As we all know today, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov lost and his brother, Rabbi David Kahn, became the new Rebbe of the Toldot Aharon. He still is the present Rebbe.

Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov didn't accept the decision and left the group with about 200 families in order to found his own group, the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak. Officially, both brothers and the group members are very friendly with each other. You can ask whoever you want and everybody will tell you the same. "We have nothing against each other", so the members.
The facts you only realize when you look into the details. One example is that Rebbe David Kahn supports the Satmarer Rebbe, Rabbi Aharon Teitelbaum, whereas his brother supports the second Satmarer Rebbe, Rabbi Zalman Leib Teitelbaum. Someone told me that Rebbe Aharon Teitelbaum has more money at hand. Money, the Toldot Aharon need for support. But I am not claiming that everything is only about money, as the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak also depend on financial support.

Personally I like to visit both Tishes of the groups. If there is a Tish, of course, I also go to the Shomrei Emunim.

People always ask me about my favourite Mea Shearim Tish which is definitely Avraham Yitzchak with its Rebbe Shmuel Yaakov Kahn. The Rebbe is energetic and has a very warm personality. He dances and loves his Chassidim participating. Although his group is an Edah member, he is not too anti - Zionist, as I already mentioned. The members took over Rebbe Arele's Takanot (internal laws) but from what I see, they are more open and not so extreme. It is always nice talking to the women of the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak. Because the Rebbe studied with the Vishnitzer Rebbe, he introduced some Vishnitzer customs into the group. The women basically dress the same as the Toldot Aharon women but do sometimes wear a head cover with colours. Whereas the Toldot Aharon women mostly wear black head covers (Yasameh) on weekdays and the white one on Shabbat or holidays. The Avraham Yitzchak women do have white head covers with colours.

The Toldot Avraham Yitzchak seem to be much more open and I can talk to them about anything. Maybe it is just me and my feeling but at the Toldot Aharon Tish many women seem to be much more reserved and I always formulate my questions carefully. At least I start carefully and then see how the woman responds. They are also friendly but more reserved. I have to add that I have also had my strangest experiences with the Toldot Aharon women. Twice I met very open - minded woman and we wanted to talk much more. Unfortunately, for different reasons, the conversations haven't taken place so far.

I especially remember the very young woman who came up to me and asked if I still remember her. A few weeks before, I had seen her at the Tish with two other friends. One could see that they just got married and the three looked like in a kind of shock. I can only speculate about the reason; shaving the hair or the husband.

However, I hardly remembered her looking so sad and a few weeks later she just sat down next to me and wanted to talk. Totally out of the blue. I didn't know how to start the conversation and she looked desperate. Eventually we didn't talk because there were too many women around. It was the most difficult situation I have, so far, faced at a Tish. If you ask me about what is going to happen when I see her again, I honestly don't know what to answer.

The bottom line is that there are chassidic group members who sometimes do want changes and join a rebbe splitting off. In the new established group they see a new chance and even a different life. Away from the old ways and see something new. But there are also the fundamentalists seeing any kind of change as a threat to the group and their personal life. They even might be afraid of changes in customs. It really depends on the personality of each member.


The present Toldot Aharon Rebbe, Rabbi David Kahn, in the middle. His brother, the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak Rebbe, Rabbi Shmuel Yaakov Kahn, to the far right.



Homepage of the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak:

http://toldosay.com/index.htm

Friday, February 1, 2008

Tonight

B"H

Due to the bad weather conditions this week, I haven't organized too much for Shabbat. There won't be chassidic Tishes at Dushinsky and Gur. The Gerer Rebbe stays in Bnei Brak and the Dushinsky Rebbe is abroad.

However, I will probably end up with the Toldot Avraham Yitzchak. I just found great pictures and an awesome video:

http://toldosay.com/Dancing.mpg

http://toldosay.com/index.htm

Enjoy the Sites !!!

Shabbat Shalom - Gut Shabbes - שבת שלום לכל הקוראים